“Where house becomes HOME”®
Hi, I’m Joy — interior designer, lifelong home-lover, and the voice behind The Aspiring Home.
I’ve been turning houses into homes since I was a little girl building dream houses out of shoeboxes, and these days I get to do it for real, as an award-winning designer here in North Texas.
I believe great design isn’t about being “magazine perfect” — it’s about your story, told through the rooms you actually live in. This is my corner of the internet to share it all: real projects, simple ideas, and a whole lot of heart. I’ve been writing here since 2012, back when this was just my creative outlet .
I’m so glad you’re here.
And if you’re just looking to wander a while, here’s where everything lives:
- The Designer’s Notebook — Real room makeovers, honest design advice, and simple ways to make your space feel like you.
- Gather & Celebrate — Tablescapes, seasonal touches, and easy hosting ideas for turning ordinary days into ones worth remembering.
- Living Well — The behind-the-scenes that keep home running and feeling good — organizing, routines, and a little everyday peace.
Pick whatever fits the season you’re in — and make yourself at home.
House to Home
Every project here travels the same road — from a house that isn’t quite working to a home that finally feels like you. Come along from start to reveal: the before, the problems we solved, the choices we made, and the moment it all comes together.
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Latest From the blog
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3 Beautiful Flooring Patterns I Stole From The Streets Of France
You know that friend who comes back from France with a camera roll full of doorways and drain covers instead of common tourist photo collections? Hi. It’s me. Except mine was full of streets and doors and doorways — because block after block, the stones kept changing their pattern, and well, I was fascinated. The…
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Kitchen Work Triangle vs. Zones: Which Is Right for You?
The classic layout isn’t going anywhere — but more of us are planning kitchens around zones. Here’s how to tell which fits yours. You know the moment. You’ve spent months on a kitchen you adore, you’ve finally invited everyone over, and somehow all eleven of them are standing in the exact two square feet between…
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Why is this 2,500 Year Old Detail Important in Design?
y I took this photo at the British Museum, and while I was standing there looking at a fluted Doric column, my designer brain did what it tends to do… It started connecting dots. Because once you notice fluting, you start seeing it everywhere. In ancient columns. In Art Deco furniture. In tambour doors. In…
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Simple Ways to Celebrate Freedom – 4th of July Style
This Fourth of July, America turns 250.Two hundred and fifty years. That’s not a birthday that comes around twice in a lifetime, and it deserves more than a bag of chips and a folding chair. Not fussy. Not Pinterest-perfect. Just a little more thought than usual, because this one matters.So let’s talk about gathering well….
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Is Hiring an Interior Designer Worth It? (Honest Answer Here)
Maybe you’re holding a paint chip in your lap right now, wondering if a designer is even worth it. Let’s talk through it together. It’s one of the most common questions I get asked. By clients across the kitchen table. By family at Thanksgiving. By people who reached out three years ago and just haven’t…
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Stop Designing for Resale — Design for You (And Watch What Happens)
You’ve heard it. Maybe a real estate agent said it. Maybe a well-meaning friend said it. Maybe you’ve been saying it to yourself every time you almost committed to something you actually loved: “But what about resale value?” For decades, that phrase has been the invisible hand pushing homeowners toward beige walls, builder-grade finishes, and…
